Monday, November 14, 2016

To the one who loves too much.

"It's okay to love too much. 
It's okay."

Love, is a very magical thing. 
You met someone, you started having feelings, you fell in love, and you cannot fall out of love. 
Your heart breaks, you tried to fix, you get tired, and finally you gave up. 
Until you met someone else again, and the cycle repeat again until you finally found someone who will walk through the end with you. 

It hurts, when you love too much and the other half isn't. 
You just keep trying and trying, hoping that one day he/she will finally realize and appreciate your love. 
Some are lucky when the love started being appreciated, some are not. 

When the love is not appreciated, and the person foresee all the things you have did for him/her. 
It hurts. 
It hurts as fuck!
I know how bad it feels but I also know how good it feels when he/she show a little bit of appreciation. 

A simple "I Love You" could mean so so much to someone who love you unconditionally, so why not say it just to make someone feels better? Why do you want to be so selfish?
But of course, mean it when you said it. 
In this century, saying "I Love You" seems to be so easy yet people still believe in such words. 
Okay, I know what I just write might be contradicting, but still action speaks louder than words. 
DO SOMETHING to show your love, to show your appreciation. 
A smile, a hug, is also a sign of showing your love and care.
Not everyone is materialistic, people who love you, just need your love and care. 
That's all we asked for. 
It's not hard, yet it's not easy to do it. 
All we need, is for our love to be appreciated. 

To the one who loves too much. 
It's okay. 
It's okay to love with all your heart. 
It's okay to do everything for the one you love. 
It's okay to love even when no one understands you. 
It's okay to love even it's not appreciated. 
You'll be hurt, you'll cry over it again and again. 
You'll have endless sleepless night thinking about it. 
But it's okay, your love will be appreciated by someone who worth it. 
Even if it takes time, even you will have to go through heart breaks.  

To the one who loves too much. 
Remember, you did not do anything wrong for loving too much. 
You just love too much, because you know how to appreciate. 
Someday, someone will appreciate you and love you the way you deserve, just like how you love him/her. 


不曾相見亦無可戀,
不曾相知亦無可思,
不曾相伴亦無可離,
不曾相惜亦無可憶,
不曾相愛亦無可棄,
不曾相對亦無可隨,
相見,不如不見.

I was watching Scarlet Heart and I came across this poet. It's just so beautiful yet so heart breaking. 
Scarlet Heart was okay but China version is so much better! 
Must watch! 

Till then, 
xx