Wednesday, January 1, 2014

First page of 2014.

HAPPY NEW YEAR ! 

Well, I am writing this post because I think I should at least post something on this day. It has nothing to do with my blog thou I know. Hahaha. Just being lame. Ignore me. 

In 2013, many things have happened on me, to the people around me. It wasn't a good year or should I call it worst if compare to the previous? But I guess every end of the year, we all said it was bad. I know right, human. Lol. 

I personally think that 2013 is the year that I finally grown up. What I really mean is growing up, mentally. 

1. I learn how to care less (like finally). If you know me well, you should probably know how much I care about everything. Now, I know how to care less. I admit I am being selfish, because I need to protect myself. You can call me selfish I don't mind, because I am, I really am. If you are good to me, of course I will treat you the same or even better. If I found that you are just using me, sorry you mean nothing now. 

2. I know who are my true friends. I really know it this time. As we are growing up and no longer the girls in pinafore, we are separated into different places and enter to different phase of our life. If our friendships are strong enough, distance means nothing and I believe that. :) 
There might be arguments between us, but I believe that arguments will only make our friendship stronger and stronger. 
I can say, I have arguments with my friends,the closest one but in the end of the day, we are okay. & that what makes our friendship stronger. I know the bond between us is unbreakable. 
This time, I really learn who are my true friends. 

It might seems less to have only 2 things that I learnt (mentally / psychologically) this year, but it means a lot to me. It really does. With these two, I learnt how to deal with haters. I know how to not care what people talk about me and live my own life. I learn how to make myself happy. Its the biggest achievement I've got. & I am proud of myself. :) 

I think the most happening incident in 2013 will be Phantom Fest organized by my college mates & me. It was the most happening & successful event in 2013. You can read the post here: Phantom Fest by PR Students of Han Chiang College. 

This post is specially for the closest one in my life. You know who you are. :) 

There is it. Ciao ~ 

xoxo